By Yachna Singh
Your 20s is that awkward decade where you’re not sure if you should be listening to Beyonce or Whitney Houston. Are you just a kid trying to make it in an adult world? Should you be feeling that sophisticated, should-be-getting-married-soon kinda vibe?
Your friends are either travelling the world, single or having their third kid and sharing Momtastic posts on Facebook. You think to yourself – where am I, and WHAT am I doing with my life?
In 2015, just how planned out can your life actually be, though? You can have the world today, and the universe tomorrow – how much is too MUCH too soon? Whether you’re in your early or late 20s, careers don’t have an age limit; experience and work ethic counts the most. There’s also no age limit to getting married and, hey, don’t just have kids for the sake of having them. Have them if YOU want them, not because your parents want to be grandparents, or your best friend’s turned into a soccer mom.
The most important thing to do is to stay real and remember your purpose. It’s remarkable to observe people you see as role models; see their craziness, brilliance and their deeper thought processes. Before you know it, with focus and regular reflection, you see yourself becoming those people, slowly but surely.
This growing up thing is strange to say the least, but you must remember that your thoughts, experiences and life plans can never be wrong – they’re all just a way of reminding you what you can achieve. And that’s anything.
